Friday, January 23, 2009

Life Update

Sorry that I've been MIA lately. Life has been happening to me I guess.

One of my BFFs, the one that had the Coming to America wedding in 07 is preggers. I'm soo excited and happy for her. I sure hope they have a girl. But, that would mean that I have to be in charge of the outfits and haircare. I love you girl, but I can't have my lil niece walking around looking crazy.

Speaking of love, he fell into it...neck deep...quicksand...gurgle gurgle. Its funny because I've known how he feels for months, its been all over his face. He's been oblivious though, so this has caught him by surprise. How do your own feelings catch you by surprise? I'll never understand that.

He's not taking it so well, (again, this is his own admission that he's uncomfortable with LOL)Something about being out of control. Wasn't in his plans. Clearly, homeboy has issues to work through regarding this latest 'discovery'. I'm just laughing on the inside though. Men can be soo funny when they get to this point...the denial...the fighting back...

In a few weeks, he will be acting like this was in his plans all along. Revisionist history at its finest. Gotta love it.


Wednesday, January 07, 2009

Happy New Year!

I hope this new year finds you in a better place and hopeful about things to come. I began the new year in the Dominican Republic. This time I was in Puerto Plata. The weather was great most of the time. I prefer the other side of the country though...Punta Cana. The beaches are better and the hotel management seemed more accomodating.

While floating in the ocean, I reflected on the ups and downs of 08's relationships and friendships. And honestly, I've become quite disappointed with how things have turned out.

So, today, I decided that I am going to stop being so damned understanding when people let me down. I will be angry and then move on. Hurt feelings don't get you anywhere. If that can be considered a resolution, then that is mine for 09.